Honey, I know the feeling! The thing is, I have multiple spheres of friends, and they rarely overlap (and when they do, it isn't always successful), so to me, this is also a daring experiment. I have the people I've known forever, people I've met through various jobs and gaming, my church cronies...I've excluded a couple people on the grounds of being loose cannons, but I still have a remarkably healthy RL friends list. (If I thought you had any desire to zoom down here for Labor Day weekend, you would totally be on the guest list, you know that, right?)