Yeah, I'm romanticizing, bad habit of mine. There are enough of that crowd who aren't married but have had successful long-term relationships---it's a question of commitment, not a white dress and a piece of paper.

And I agree, I know some gals who are well rid of the bozos they married. (I just want a non-bozo to keep my in the style to which I would like to become accustomed. Call me a throwback to a 50s housewife....)