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This year...most of you have been around for it. I've been out of work the whole time. Kat passed away in February. S is a mess; prescription drug abuse isn't pretty. (However, I have been enticed into schnauzer-sitting for her when she and T go to their Key West time-share in a matter of weeks.)

In general, life goes on, and starting tomorrow, it's going to go on with me beyond my 40s. Big Red said in an email this morning that she's never seen anyone so excited about turning 50. I replied that I was hoping I'd finally feel like a grown-up. She LOL'ed, but I was kinda serious.

This countdown was something I embraced without thinking it through, and nearly succumbed to summer malaise a few times. I may have left things out; it's not easy to remeber exactly when things happened, or they may have not made it into an otherwise busy entry, as with BC and NJ's wedding, which was in the spring of the year my dad died. (1985)

If there's something you think I've skipped over, I WILL take questions---can be about life, fic, cast of peripheral characters, whatever. If you think I've left something essential out, let me know. I'll allow commenters ONE question, and I reserve the right to remain silent if I think something is TMI that you'd be better off not knowing.

It's been real, folks!

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Date: 2010-09-08 09:04 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] jdsgirlbev.livejournal.com
Remember you said that you still feel 20ish? I'm 54, and I still feel 20ish myself...most of the time! :D

Happy Birthday!

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Date: 2010-09-08 09:46 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] vanillafluffy.livejournal.com
Big day is actually tomorrow, but thanks in advance!

Yeah, in my head, I'm maybe 28 (which was a really good year), and sometimes I look in the mirror and wince. (Not always. Just the days when stress and my shoulders are trying to have the last word.)

I know I've been kinda flaky this summer, and I'm sorry. I haven't crafted anything in months, my coffee table is about a foot deep in crap, and I'm praying for October and consistantly cooler temps. I'm tired of the 90s, I'm tired of the 80s---I'd like to see it drop to the low 70s and stay there.

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Date: 2010-09-08 09:49 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ruric.livejournal.com
No questions but I realy enjoyed reading your countdown posts.

And HAPPY BIRTHDAY in advance for tomorrow! *G*

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Date: 2010-09-08 09:57 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] vanillafluffy.livejournal.com
Back atcha, birthday twin! (Day, not year.)

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Date: 2010-09-09 12:40 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] pwcorgigirl.livejournal.com
You made it! And since you'll probably still be awake at midnight:

HAPPY BIRTHDAY! *tosses confetti*

I hope you have a fabulous day, hon. {{{HUGS}}}

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Date: 2010-09-09 12:44 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] vanillafluffy.livejournal.com
Thank you, darlin'! Mb is being very coy about when things are happening tomorrow, but I did manage to get out of her that my usual noon brunch should've worn off by the time she hijacks me for food and frolic. Which makes sense, since most of the people on the invite list have day jobs. So I imagine I'll be around on lj til midafternoon---which is good, since I have fic to post. Comments are as good as birthday cards, IMO.

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Date: 2010-09-09 01:18 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] cbtreks.livejournal.com
This has been interesting and fun for us to read (perhaps not necessarily fun for you?). Thanks for sharing so much of yourself. (I'm 47 but I think I'm stuck at 27!)

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Date: 2010-09-09 03:29 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] vanillafluffy.livejournal.com
There were a few places where I had to prod myself to keep going. But like living it the first time, the only way past it is through it. That so many people came along for the ride was...interesting. It's not exactly spicy reading, but I hope there were a few good turns of phrase. Thanks for hanging in there with me!

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Date: 2010-09-09 02:37 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] joker-satx.livejournal.com
This happens to me all the time...I am willing to bet that you are smokin hot...especially at 50! Happy Birthday chica! Enjoy it!

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Date: 2010-09-09 03:31 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] vanillafluffy.livejournal.com
Thanks, dude.

Here's a picture taken this past Sunday, so you can decide for yourself how much smoke I'm generating:

Image (http://pics.livejournal.com/vanillafluffy/pic/000ckztc/)



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Date: 2010-09-10 12:04 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] joker-satx.livejournal.com
Image (http://s179.photobucket.com/albums/w292/Flyinfox_SATX/Blog%20Comments/?action=view&current=HitIt.jpg)

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Date: 2010-09-10 04:04 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] vanillafluffy.livejournal.com
Nice to know I've still got "it".

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Date: 2010-09-09 04:01 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] gwylliondream.livejournal.com
Vanillafluffy, you are my idol of fiftyhood!

Happy Birthday!

Oh shit, I have to think of a question...

XO
Donna

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Date: 2010-09-09 04:36 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] vanillafluffy.livejournal.com
Me, an idol? Woohoo! *preens*

No hurry with the question, I'm not going anywhere. I mean, bed eventually, and a party some time tomorrow, but I always come back.

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Date: 2010-09-10 10:17 am (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] fufaraw
This was very brave of you to do. Happy Birthday!

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Date: 2010-09-10 02:34 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] vanillafluffy.livejournal.com
Thank you!

Brave? I didn't feel brave...maybe a little self-serving, but hey, it's my LJ. It's not any worse than some of those 30-day memes out there.

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